Our editorial standards keep the guides useful and the reviews trustworthy. Read how we source, check, and correct everything we publish.
A few clear lines we hold, so you always know where we stand.
We do not pad the site with bots, filler accounts or recycled photos. Every profile is checked by a real moderator before it goes live, and repeat offenders lose access. If a profile looks off, our team wants to know. You will not find inflated member counts here, only the people who actually turned up and signed on.
Kink lives or dies on consent. We do not push members toward scenes, meetings or acts they have not agreed to. Editorial guides always frame negotiation first, hard limits second, aftercare third. If a member reports pressure, coercion or boundary breaches, we act quickly and we back the person who spoke up.
Aussie BDSM does not host content or profiles built around presenting a person as an animal. That includes puppy, kitten, pony and handler-style dynamics. It is a network-wide policy, applied on every site we run, and it is not up for debate. Members who list this focus will be asked to update their profile before it stays visible.
We are a dating and community site, not a clinic. Our writers will not claim BDSM cures anxiety, fixes trauma or replaces therapy. Where a topic touches mental or physical health, we recommend speaking to a qualified professional. Honest information beats hype, and we would rather lose a headline than mislead a reader.
The habits that shape every guide, review and profile check on the site.
Every profile is checked by a real moderator, not a scoring algorithm. We look for consistent photos, plausible bios and clear kink interests. Anything that reads as fake, scraped or coercive gets flagged before it reaches the public grid. Members can also report profiles in one tap, and each report lands in a queue a person actually reads.
Our editors organise every guide around negotiation, limits and aftercare. Techniques come after the safety notes, not before. When we cover impact, rope, sensation or power exchange, we spell out what to agree on, what to avoid and how to end a scene calmly. If a topic cannot be covered responsibly in short form, we say so and point readers to specialist resources.
We write for Australia. That means real cities, real venues where they exist, and language that sounds like the people using the site. Our guides recognise long distances, small scenes and the reality of finding play partners outside the capitals. Where laws or community norms shift by state, we flag it plainly so members can make informed choices.
If you spot a factual error in a guide or profile listing, tell us. We update the page, note the change at the foot of the article and, where the mistake was ours, apologise clearly. To flag something for review, please contact support.
Complaints about member behaviour, unsafe content or moderation decisions are handled by a person, usually within one business day. We keep a written record, we tell you what we found, and we tell you what we did about it. If you disagree with an outcome, you can ask for a second review by a senior moderator who was not involved the first time.
For anything else, from press questions to guide suggestions to accessibility feedback, our team is happy to hear from you. We aim to reply within two business days. Sensitive matters can be sent through the same channel and will be handled discreetly. To reach us directly, please contact support.
Aussie BDSM is built for grown-ups who know what they want and want to say it out loud. Every profile is checked by a real moderator before it goes live, so the people you meet are the people you see. Set your limits, pick your kinks, and browse locals who share them. No pressure, no theatrics, just honest connection between consenting adults across every Australian capital and the towns in between.
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